And you want her to be your lover and not a friend, right?. I was gracious, kind, and direct. When I was home this summer, I spoke with three different friends in three different relationships. Nor am I saying that you should be texting each other constantly. If you two are below the age of 25, one or the other could still be going through that dorky phase, where you haven't figured out how much is too much.
Face to face is where the magic happens.
How Often Do You Text in a New Relationship?
Sign in Get started. Originally Posted by Meat Rubbing Specialist. Then I can choose if that arrangement is going to work for me. Or declarations of love. I myself don't really like texting all that much, my wife will be in the other room and text me. Really there is a lot of context and "it depends" in these kind of questions.
After all, I avoid texting most of the time, unless I am at work where I am mostly available on Skype. If you do this, it may seem to her that you have nothing much going on in your life apart from her. Frankly, they feel like lame excuses. Two of them texted a lot, but even the most independent person shared that there was communication daily. From my experience, silence is so not golden.