There are serious health implications with this type of behaviour. Often people have a combination of physical and psychological issues, which together cause problems. If this happens, you may also have noticed that when you first pass water after intercourse it is cloudy. This Disclaimer applies to the Answer Below. Is it just his hormonal levels or what? Having a psychological problem with sex does not mean that there is anything else wrong with your mental health.
I also do not spend the night with him and he states that this prevents us from living our relationship and developing more intimacy.
Also, consider the possible of psychotherapy for couples. If you are interested in donating, please click here or contact us for more information details at the bottom of this page. I also know that he enjoys watching pornographic movies and often masturbates with these. He, however, rarely desires sex. In the case of your lover it is impossible to know why he does not want sex more often.
They can be modified slowly over time, given the proper loving attention, but they cannot be changed quickly. The main reason I feel this way is because of difficulties in our sexual relationship. However, when they are crossed like this, a mismatch between the partners occurs that can be quite painful for both parties. If your erection is never OK either with a partner or with masturbation, and is never there when you wake upthen it is likely to be a physical problem in the body. By donating to the Sexual Advice Association, you will know that you are helping improve the lives of people living with sexual problems. He then tells me he does still find me attractive and that he will make more of an effort — and that lasts for a week. No ongoing relationship of any sort including but not limited to any form of professional relationship is implied or offered by Dr.