We always visit but stay in Wellfleet or Truro. Wellfleet might fit your needs. All hotels in Provincetown But gay life has changed over the years and many couples I know have families of their own--so while there can be a "spring break" atmosphere at some places, there are also many many families around--both gay and straight. Destination Expert for Cape Cod.
We are thinking of provincetown because it sounds very lively and vibrant.
All forums. There are fishing charters that will take you out of Provincetown harbor if you want that kind of fishing. Some other weeks to be aware of:
There are no miniature golf courses there are a couple in Eastham about 20 miles south.